Model Positive Masculinity with Picture Books featuring Male Role Models who...
Today is Father’s Day ~ a special day for families to celebrate the dads, uncles, grandpas, and father figures who help raise and guide their children. It’s also the perfect time to reflect on the kind of masculinity we want the next generation to see and grow into. Unfortunately, many of the most visible male figures in the public eye ~ including powerful leaders like the president ~ often model harmful versions of masculinity: dominance without empathy, power without accountability, and confidence without compassion.
That’s why it’s so important to offer children alternative narratives ~ stories that show boys and men who are kind, gentle, emotionally aware, and respectful. Picture books can play a powerful role in shaping how kids understand what it really means to be strong. This book list features male role models who lead with heart, take care of others, express big feelings, and stand up for what’s right.
These are the role models our kids deserve to see ~ not just on Father’s Day, but every day of the year
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Picture Books featuring Positive Male Role Models who…
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Are comfortable expressing emotions like sadness, fear, or affection
Together We Remember by Jackie Morera | Giselle and Papi miss Mami, whose absence is felt deeply ~ but through imagination and storytelling, they honor her memory. Together, they journey through rainforests, outer space, and beloved moments of the past, keeping Mami’s spirit alive while making space for each other’s grief.
Listen actively and shows empathy
Rajiv’s Starry Feelings by Niall Moorjani | Rajiv feels a lot of things ~ but today, he feels angry and doesn’t know why. With his father’s help, he embarks on a journey through nature and imagination to understand his emotions.
Acknowledge vulnerability as strength
Big Problems, Little Problems by Ben Feller | Follow a single dad and his wise little boy as they navigate everyday challenges with love, teamwork, and a secret handshake. Told from the father’s perspective, it highlights how listening and learning from each other helps them handle frustration and grow together.
Welcome and treats others with respect
The Welcome Home by Amy June Bates | Mr. and Mrs. Gargleson-Bittle want to add some excitement to their quiet life, so they start adopting pets ~ first a snail, then an elephant, then an aardvark! Their house fills with noise, love, and laughter, but there's still room for one more. A sweet story about expanding your heart and opening up your home to others.
Take responsibility for their actions
Freya and the Snake by Fredrik Sonck | Where Freya sees the snake by her home sheas curious creature ~ her parents see it as a danger. When her dad takes matters into his own hands, Freya is heartbroken and her dad must take responsibility and explain his actions.
Reflect on their behavior and learn from mistakes
Dad Bakes by Katie Yamasaki | Every morning, Dad works at the bakery before returning home to spend time baking, playing, and connecting with his daughter. Inspired by stories of formerly incarcerated people, this heartfelt book celebrates love, family, and the joy of rebuilding a life.
Use their strength and privilege to uplift and help those in need
José Feeds the World by David Unger | After a devastating earthquake hit Haiti in 2010, Chef José Andrés rushed to help ~ cooking meals for those in need. That moment sparked the creation of World Central Kitchen, which has since fed millions during disasters around the world.
Advocate for others and stands up to injustice
Unstoppable John by Pat Zietlow Miller | In 1956, John Lewis was denied a library card because he was Black ~ and that injustice sparked a lifelong fight for equality. Through peaceful protest and unwavering determination, he helped change laws and open doors for future generations.
Provide encouragement, not control
Made for Me by Zack Bush | A heartfelt celebration of the joy of a child's first moments ~ from their first word to their first steps ~ through the eyes of a loving dad.
Form deep, trusting partnerships and relationships
At the End of the Day by Lisl H. Detlefsen | After a long, busy day, everything can feel overwhelming ~ but with a little patience, the evening can bring comfort, surprises, and moments of gratitude. Features a dad caring for the kids while the mom is deployed.
Communicate openly, clearly, and respectfully
Bold Words from Black Men by Dr. Tamara Pizzolo | Celebrates Black men’s voices of affirmation, resilience, and wisdom ~ from leaders, artists, athletes, and thinkers who have shaped the blueprint for Black manhood and humanity. Features figures like Sidney Poitier, Jay-Z, LeBron James, Neil deGrasse Tyson, and Barack Obama.
Support the emotional well-being of others
The Noise Inside Boys by Pete Oswald | When two older brothers tease their younger brother, overwhelming feelings surface, along with the urge to push them away. Later that evening, the young boy’s father helps him name and understand his big feelings.
Open to feedback and willing to grow
Kid Coach by Rob Justus | Kid Coach turns couch potatoes into champions ~ starting with Dad, the biggest couch potato of all. As Dad trains for the Wrestle-Rumble-Mania-Kingdom Tournament, Kid Coach faces the challenge of not just getting him in shape, but teaching him to be a good sport.
Build others up and spread hope
Pride: The Story of Harvey Milk and the Rainbow Flag by Rob Sanders | This powerful true story traces the journey of the Gay Pride Flag from its creation in 1978 by Harvey Milk and Gilbert Baker to its global significance today. Read this book to celebrate love, hope, equality, and pride.
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Here’s to raising our young readers and future leaders!
Happy Reading,
Maya
Hey Mai, thanks so much for this list. I was *just* looking for books for my 8yo to help him broaden his tool box when triggered by fear and injustice. I think some here may be helpful. If you have any other recommendations or lists that could apply, I’m all ears. Thanks for what you do!